This page will help you to find out, to put your feelings in place and discern emotional from rational.
And the ones who are close to you think you need to start interacting with people more often. You may think you need to be more like one of your girl friends who finds it so easy to talk to anyone she wants to.
Your shyness can be confused with cold arrogance, especially when you look pretty.
This may scare several guys off from talking to you, but the great guys will always want to know you better. They’re unpredictable because their emotions can’t be read easily, and this makes every guy try so much harder to please you. And any guy who’s loaded with testosterone loves a girl who behaves like a graceful girly girl.
Some guys like skinny girls with no boobs and some guys don’t mind a little “thickness” as long as the girl is curvy with a big set protruding the front of her.
However, women are constantly dieting and exercising to make their bodies look ideal for men (and to be healthy too, of course).