I call the beginning phase of dating “Dating Limbo” because no one knows yet what will become of the relationship.
So, to sum up: You’re not wrong to be upset with the status quo. Here are the ways that you could approach this in a healthier fashion: 1.
When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.
At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!
Will you hang out a few more times until one of you cools off and ends it?
A major factor which adds to the existent stress and confusion during this period is game-playing.